Monday, March 17, 2008

Adult Costumes Entice Spicy Behavior

Every evening at home can be spiced up when adult costumes are worn. Adult costumes entice married couples to exhibit spicy behavior because the costume allows couples to fantasize about busty women who are not afraid of showing off their best asset. Other costumes might allow a man to experience a lifelong dream. The man might dress as a Count who has fallen into a forbidden love triangle with a maid and a Queen. Only the man will know who the winner of his heart will be on any particular evening, but with the costumes hanging in the closet, the wife knows that she will not be disappointed very often.

Some women would never dare to bare their bodies in public but in the privacy of home, there are no set rules to follow. The scantily clad bodies of both parties might run rampant around the house in the hopes that one or the others fantasy will be fulfilled at some point during the night. Adult costumes can be elaborate and ornate as necessary and couples have great fun taking time out to dress for an evening of fun.

The simple donning of a costume is enough to please some husbands because they appreciate the trust and respect that has been displayed by their most treasured lover. Couples will be inclined to dress up in adult costumes more often because the costumes are seen every time they open the bedroom closet. Some intimate costume parties might take the couple out to the pool, or the couple might think that a pirate costume deserves an intimate walk on a long and deserted beach.

The selection of adult costumes is truly a creative effort. Couples can search for these adult products through the internet and know exactly on which day they will be delivered. This simple ordering process allows couples to plan adventurous dates with unknown mysterious men and women who they know they have not met yet but look forward to the first opportunity they get. The anticipation of meeting an unknown love interest is enough to start the wheels of romance churning.

Wednesday, March 5, 2008

How to Catch a Cheater

If someone feels their partner or potential partner is hiding something from them, then they may consider hiring the services of a private investigator. But is this the best way to reveal the secrets of the object of your affections? Hollywood offers a cornucopia of fictional cheaters, liars and deceivers, with warnings about what can go wrong if someone attempts to deceive or suppresses their feelings about being cheated upon.

In the 1998 film Dirty Rotten Scoundrel, directed by Frank Oz, confidence tricksters Freddy and Lawrence, played by Steve Martin and Michael Caine respectively, compete to seduce a woman by the name of Janet (played by Glenne Headly), who they suspect to in possession of a fortune. After a series of attempts to demonstrate superior charms, while posing as a crippled soldier and a neurologist, the conmen discover that Janet is penniless, and the bet converts into an amorous challenge. By the end of the film, this particular femme fatale has shown that she is hiding something important herself.

When reticent barber Ed Crane (Billy Bob Thornton) discovers that his wife is having an affair with department store owner, "Big Dave" Brewster, in the Coen Brothers' film, The Man Who Wasn't There, he decides to turn it to his advantage, and blackmail him for the money he needs to open a lucrative dry-cleaning business with Creighton Tolliver. But when Tolliver becomes greedy and asks Brewster for more money himself, Big Dave retaliates and takes his revenge on Ed. As a typical Coen Brothers anti-hero, you watch as the self-effacing and ridiculed Ed Crane see his plans for improving his lot go horribly wrong.

Although few people in real life would tolerate their spouse's infidelity as Crane does, and confidence tricksters are thankfully few on the ground, these films are just two examples of the spiral of deception that surrounds infidelity and concealed identity. In reality, private investigators may use techniques to reveal misleading identity and infidelity that are as ingenious as fiction.

It's unlikely that anyone would be happy at the thought of using covert techniques to find information out about their partner, but it can be a way of putting anxieties to rest if you really feel you are being taken advantage of and deal with the situation in a pro-active way.